Today, before Friday, there were three questions, the answer of which was required in the light of Shariat, but one question shook me that, man, what kind of question is this?
The question was, Qari sir, is it necessary for the wife to go to the mother's house during the birth of the child? While the conditions of the mothers are not better?
This question is certainly enough to describe the approach of this society
I completely reduced the topic of my Friday and started talking about this topic, believe me, tears came to people's eyes, of course, this is a household problem. This problem is also the root of many problems.
Actually, the real cause of this problem is not the husband but his mother, or father. Those who have only one thing that the child is born in the mother, this responsibility is the mother's. So did your mother, her mother, and then her mother, until you were born in your maternal grandfather's house.
Then these wise parents never think whether the conditions of the girl's house are good or not, is there someone who can take care of her?
They take the burden off their heads and put it on the heads of others, saying, "Go, spend this difficult day with your mother."
I ask that even if the girl belongs to a rich family, the husband who married her is responsible for her. Whose child she is carrying in her womb, if he was not able to bear the responsibility, why did she marry such a Nakhtu? And if he wants to take charge, then what is the position of the mother-in-law or father-in-law that they provoke their son on this cruelty for no reason??
This is just injustice, on the child's mother, on the innocent born and most importantly on the forced parents who bear the burden of their daughter just to keep their daughter's home. Many poor girls suffer from severe depression in these conditions which directly affects the child's health and development, so it is a great cruelty in that sense.
As for the husband, if he cannot provide comforts for his wife in this condition, then he is a very unworthy and ignorant husband. What right does he have over the child except that he is its father?
This Hindu and ignorant custom of the subcontinent has absolutely nothing to do with Shariat and anyone who is deprived of these rights will be held accountable for this cruelty on the Day of Judgment, and his wallet is going to be very severe.
It's straightforward, if you can't pay your rights, then don't get married, and if you want to have children, show yourself as a father. Otherwise, just being called father has no meaning.
(Syed Musab Ghaznavi)
The power of men against women
Men have authority over women
